Family

Variations on the theme: this season, identity and family have been explored, now the theme reaches out to include Tara (and by extension, Willow, who has been underutilized so far this season). Tara has, understandably, been aware that she's not really a Scoobie. Even though she's been around for a season, Buffy and Xander can't think of a thing to get her for her birthday; they claim to not know her well enough.

By the end of the episode, we've found that Tara's own family is awful, and that she believed she was part demon. It's been established that she is officially part of the group, with everyone bonding together to save her from her father--even though she cast a spell that could have caused them to be killed by demons. She is forgiven and accepted, claimed as family.

Things to note: Spike had come to see Buffy killed, but helped save her (gee, imagine that), AND he is part of the process of "claiming" Tara--he's not a Scoobie, but he is. His intervention not only saved Buffy but also established that Tara's father was lying and she was not part demon. His integration from punch line to essential side man has started.

Also, Tara has misused magic, casting a spell for her benefit that impacts others. She is contrite that she did so, accepting that it was wrong. Willow--foreshadowing next season's issues--excuses and defends the use of magic to make Tara's pain less and life better. Tara has learned from her experience; Willow hasn't.

And, very importantly, Riley helps Buffy move in, then feels shut out and leaves, heading to Willy's bar to drink with vampires--looking for darkness? Leading into something? AND, equally importantly, the big love fest at the end that solidifies Tara (and Spike and Anya) as part of the expanded group--Riley's not there. He's on borrowed time. He knows it, too.

No Place Like Home

Story arc for season five is started, and we meet Glory--although we don't learn her name for a while, and its even longer before we find that she is Ben...and vise versa. That's interesting, now that I think about it: the season starts with episodes about identity, Dawn's and Xander's, now a major plot point involves identity-the Ben/Glory connection. In fact, ultimately what saves Glory from Buffy is that Buffy won't kill Ben--a human (Giles, however...that's different).

This specific episode is concerned with identity as well. Buffy finds out the Dawn is "The Key," with no idea yet what that means, except that Dawn has only recently become human. Buffy's grousing about wanting to be an only child--growing pains as she grows into her role as big sister.

And Dawn, with her total lack of savvy, reveals that Buffy doesn't want Riley patrolling--his instincts were correct about how his role would change with the loss of his powers. And Spike, in a brief appearance showing that he's watching/stalking Buffy (outside her house, a pile of cigarette butts revealing he's been there a while), utters the famous "Out for a walk....bitch" line when Buffy only gives him 5 words to explain his presence. Interesting, here at the beginning of their "relationship" of sorts, she calls him "William" instead of Spike. According to a Buffy wiki, she does that twice in the whole series: now, and when she ends their relationship in season 6. Gotta think about that....

And the title? Joyce is home from the hospital, Dawn is "home" now. There are some very domestic moments, and Joyce and Dawn clearly have a close relationship--nicknames and book clubs, and Buffy feels left out...jealous, like a new big sister might. By doing a spell, Buffy realizes Dawn wasn't Home there previously, but the dying monk affirms that Buffy is to protect Dawn; we find out later that Dawn was made from Buffy...whatever that means.

So exactly what does the title mean? Not sure, but the domestic family theme is crucial, and the exploration of identity in the first few episodes continues.